A Facebook friend explained to me last night that she was very confused about the purpose of BYHOME. I was grateful to hear this because it helped me to know I needed to do a better job of explaining this mission! While God has made it clear to me, I have failed in making the mission clear to others.
Here was my response to my friend regarding the purpose of hosting people on our ranch through BYHOME:
First, we want to help adoptive families stay intact by providing tools, resources, education, inspiration, encouragement, fellowship, and prayer in a family camp type setting. We want all orphans to have families, and part of that pledge is to help struggling/exhausted adoptive families to stay on course.
Second, we want to come alongside families in the process of adopting by helping them to prepare for the transition into life after adoption. By having these families stay with us, they will live the post-adoptive life first-hand, taking home many tips, tools, and techniques learned with on-the-job training.
Third, we want to host potential adoptive families in our home to encourage them to consider adopting a child with special needs. By staying with us, they will see first-hand the blessing and redemption of the least of these who are so often badly abused and neglected {before being adopted}.
Fourth, we want to host people who have a heart for mission work, particularly in serving children with special needs. By serving at our ranch, we pray God will open other people's eyes, hearts, and homes to adoption and orphan care. If guests do not feel called to adopt, they can partner with Boss Your Heart Orphan Ministries so that we can help care for orphans globally in a myriad of ways, from orphanage sponsorships, to orphan sponsorships, to orphan advocacy, to helping raise money to bring orphans into families. The ways we can help financially are countless, we just need partnerships and financial support in order to do so.
I hope this explanation clears things up a little bit, but if not, please let me know if I’m not explaining things clearly. We’re working on a website and reservations to stay with us, but I just don’t have time to do everything. We’re so blessed with faithful helpers and volunteers who make a world of difference in our daily lives, but this new mission is in addition to the roles each of us already serves in, so finding time and resources to have this all come together is challenging. If you’d like to help in some way, please let us know (be specific about what talents you have and how you’d like to help please). We specifically need someone to make a video about this ministry. I’m working on a brochure now, and I’m working with a generous friend who is helping build the reservation website. There’s much to be done to launch this, but we’re clinging to the promise that NOTHING is impossible with God. We’re so grateful for all of the prayers, support, sponsorships, and gifts that have already been given. We couldn’t do this without you!
You and your family/friends are cordially invited to join us for
OPEN HOUSE at BYHOME
(Boss Your Heart Orphan Ministries Experience)
Tuesday, October 8, 2013
11AM-8PM (come and go)
Wimberley, TX 78676
In memory of Chrissie’ 8th birthday (Oct. 8)
Come see WHAT we're doing, our newest mission, BYHOME, a special place for others to come stay with and serve alongside our large adoptive family for short-term missions, as well as a place of respite/encouragement/prayer for adoptive families.
Come see WHY we're doing what we're doing!
Come see WHO we are and meet our precious treasures!
Come see WHERE we're located!
Boss Your Heart Orphan Ministries EXPERIENCE launches October 8, and we would LOVE for you to experience this exciting day alongside us.
The "barnominium" (think condominium above our barn) will be open for all to view!
· Are you looking for a place to serve children with special needs?
· Are you looking to participate in a life-changing short-term domestic mission trip?
· Are you desiring to do MORE for His Kingdom?
· Is your church looking for a non-profit ministry to serve/support?
· Are you a post-adoptive family in need of help/encouragement/prayer?
· Are you in the process of adopting and want some guidance and/or help preparing for what life will be like once your child gets home?
· Are you considering adoption and want to learn more about the ins and outs of domestic adoption, international adoption, adoption of children with special needs, adopting out of birth order, adopting at-risk children, etc.?
· Are you looking for a hands-on experience that will change your heart?
· Are you looking for a place to be encouraged, equipped, educated, and inspired to do more for orphans?
· Are you clueless about adoption and orphan care but have heart, hands, and feet willing to love and learn?
· BYHOME is PERFECT for ALL of you!!!
Celebrating the birthday of our daughter in heaven is always an emotionally challenging time for us, so we thank you in advance for helping us by supporting our ministry and hugging our necks on this special day! If you’re not able to make it, please pray for our family and God’s provision as we embark on His newest calling in our lives, and consider becoming a sponsor (click HERE) and/or purchasing an item from our BYHOME Wist List (click HERE). Thank you so much!
We are so grateful for everyone who came over Saturday for our BYHOME work day!
Thank you, thank you, thank you to everyone who came out to lend a helping hand!!!
Together, we accomplished SO MUCH, which brings us closer to being able to launch BYHOMExperience!
God’s hand upon this ministry is mighty, and He continues to confirm that, yes, not only is this His will for our ministry at this time, but we CAN do all things through His strength.
We only have 30 items left to purchase on the BYHOME Amazon Wish list. Please prayerfully consider making a purchase here: BYHOME Barnominium Wish List.
A very generous friend blessed us with SIX brand new mattresses! Now we need sheets for the mattresses, and we’d sure love to have mattress protectors to keep them clean and new. You may select those from the wish list as well: BYHOME Barnominium Wish List.
And, of course, if you’d like to make a donation/become a sponsor, just click on the photo below:
And, don’t forget to SHARE, PRAY, and GIVE for a chance to win a free 4-night stay at the BYHOME barnominium!
Amazon isn’t letting me see details about purchased items (I can’t tell which items have been purchased nor who purchased them!), so please, please, please contact me to let me know. We would like to mail you a thank you card and be able to mark the item you purchased off of our “needed” list. We’d also like to enter you in the giveaway to win a FREE 4-night stay at the BYHOME Barnominium! Please let us know your name, the item you purchased, and your mailing address. Our contact info is posted on the photo below.
We cannot thank you all enough!!! Y’all are helping make Chrissie’s 8th birthday a very special one, creating another facet of Chrissie’s legacy, one that will last generations to come.
It’s so hard to be separated from our daughter on a daily basis, but special occasions are even more difficult. It is because of your giving and sharing and praying and supporting that we are able to boss our hearts through the hardest times to align with the Truth of God’s Word. He truly turns ashes into beauty, mourning into dancing. Thank you from the depths of our hearts!!!
We have a fabulous giveaway at the end of this post, along with some exciting announcements! Be sure to read the photo captions to get the full story!
Last year (2012), we hosted an online birthday party, in memory of Chrissie’s 7th birthday, benefitting Village of Hope in Guatemala. In 2011, we hosted a team roping benefit at our ranch, in memory of Chrissie's 6th birthday, benefitting adoptive families.
This year, we’re SO EXCITED to host our 2nd annual online birthday party, in memory of Chrissie’s 8th birthday, benefitting BYHOME (Boss Your Heart Orphan Ministries Experience), our newest mission.
BYHOME is a one-of-a-kind mission, in memory of a one-of-a-kind girl! BYHOME is a mission to reach countless orphans worldwide by hosting other families/groups in the “barnonminium” on our ranch, where they will EXPERIENCE first-hand countless ways God can use them to make a difference in the lives of orphans.
Are you a post-adoptive family in need of help? BYHOME is perfect for you!
Are you in the process of adopting and want some guidance and/or help preparing for what life will be like once your child gets home? BYHOME is perfect for you, too!
Are you considering adoption and want to learn more about the ins and outs of domestic adoption, international adoption, adoption of children with special needs, adopting out of birth order, adopting at-risk children, etc.? BYHOME is perfect for you as well!
Are you looking for a domestic mission trip experience that will change your heart? BYHOME is perfect for this!
Are you looking for a place to be encouraged, equipped, educated, and inspired to do more for orphans? BYHOME is the perfect opportunity!
Are you clueless about adoption and orphan care? Guess what? BYHOME is also perfect for you!
To get our new mission launched (hopefully on Chrissie’s birthday, October 8), we need your help! We have the perfect set-up, a “barnominium” (1,000 square foot guest apartment above our barn), where we plan to host groups/families on our ranch where they'll EXPERIENCE first-hand how to boss their hearts as they serve alongside our family, learning about children with special needs, therapies, domestic adoption, international adoption, global orphan care, educating former orphans, helping post-adoptive families, and so much more! This is for all ages and stages of life. We will minister to post-adoptive families, families in the process of adopting, families considering adopting, and guests who may or may not have a clue about orphan care, but have hands and feet willing to serve as well as hearts and minds willing to learn. :-)
After a BYHOME stay, guests will leave with changed hearts, believing and knowing undoubtedly that ALL are precious in His Sight! Guests will leave educated, encouraged, equipped, and inspired to care for orphans in whatever way the Lord has called them, whether it’s through adoption or through one of the many other ways of living out James 1:27.
BYHOME is a much-needed ministry, the only one of its kind, and we already have guests on our waiting list! In order to launch this, we need to furnish the barnominium, and you can help us, in memory of Chrissie’s 8th birthday! The barnominium will sleep 12 people in comfy beds, plus more can bring sleeping bags if desired.
You’re also invited to attend (in real life!) the BYHOME Open Houseat our ranch on Chrissie's birthday, October 8. While Chrissie celebrates her 8th birthday in heaven, we'll celebrate her life and legacy here on earth. For those unable to attend in person, we’ll host a virtual tour of the BYHOME barnominium right here on our blog October 8 where the big reveal of the interior you help furnish will occur!
We have many ways you can help us to celebrate Chrissie’s life and legacy. Please prayerfully consider a sponsorship of BYHOME (donations are tax-deductible) and also consider purchasing an item for BYHOME from our Amazon wish list via the link below.
Sponsors and donors will have their names listed on a plaque in the barnominium where every guest who walks through the doors will see who helped make this mission possible, in memory of Chrissie’s 8th birthday!
To become a sponsor, simply select the donation level below and click the donation button. Your tax-deductible secure donation will be given directly to Boss Your Heart Orphan Ministries via PayPal.
You may also make a one-time donation of any amount (by clicking button below) or you may make an ongoing monthly donation (by clicking the corresponding button below). All donations are tax-deductible and will go toward bettering the lives of orphans near and far.
One Time Donation of Any Amount:
If you prefer to mail a check, please send to:
Boss Your Heart Orphan Ministries
PO Box 1708
Kyle, TX 78640
Be sure to leave a comment to let us know your name and sponsorship level so we can properly thank you and include your name on the sponsorship plaque that will hang in the BYHOME barnominium.
Also, please consider purchasing an item from the BYHOME Wish List
Be sure to leave a comment to let us know your name and what item you purchased so we can properly thank you, scratch the item off the list, and include your name on the plaque that will hang in each room listing the sponsors of each room.
And last, but not least, please enter the giveaway for a FREE 4-night stay at the BYHOME barnominium!!! Giveaway details are posted on the photo below.
Thank you for sponsoring the “Christyn ‘Jewelry’ (Joy)” Room:
One Time Donation:
Donations to Boss Your Heart Orphan Ministries, a 501(c)3 non-profit, are tax-deductible. We care for orphans domestically and internationally, in memory of Chrissie, with a special emphasis on caring for orphans who have special needs. We also educate, equip, inspire, and encourage others to help care for orphans. We offer a unique domestic mission trip ranch opportunity by hosting families in our home (BYHOME) where they receive a first-hand learning experience on our ranch with our large adoptive family.
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These are our new sons! Click their picture to read the story of how God worked miracles to lead us to them while in Ukraine Dec. '11.
Sons of our Heart
These were our Summer '11 host boys who we planned to adopt. God brought us to Ukraine Dec. 2011 to adopt them, but turned the events to lead us to adopt 2 six-year-old boys with Down syndrome! Our host boys now live with their bio aunt, but they'll always be sons in our hearts.
Hi, I'm Lorraine. I'm just one member of Team Boss Your Heart, but I happen to be the one who keeps up with this little blog God started in December 2009. I'm mom to 13 (3 bio, 10 adopted, 1 in heaven), so I don't devote as much time to updating this blog much anymore--sorry! This is my online diary/scrapbook of sorts, a way to record this journey of large family--special needs--blessed by adoption--ranch living--Jesus loving life. Explore this blog (and BossYourHeart.com) to get to know us, as well as the ministry and testimony God has given us. It's not your typical family testimony, but it's the one He's written for us, and we wouldn't have it any other way.
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Support
Often times, people ask us how to donate directly to our family, to help with medical expenses, etc. This donate button goes to our personal account where donations are NOT tax-deductible. Please know that we do not at all expect outside support, but we are grateful for your support. God has always abundantly provided for our family, and we thank you for your prayers and support.